tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post115809079270291976..comments2023-09-13T06:18:33.808-05:00Comments on Neurotic In Ashburn: The way to my heart.....Ashburnitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08178625862969850097noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158281486670027202006-09-14T19:51:00.000-05:002006-09-14T19:51:00.000-05:00I admit that I expect to be treated well. Not like...I admit that I expect to be treated well. Not like some high-maintenance princess, mind you. But common respect and courtesy should be a given in a relationship. A girl only needs ONE asshole in her life. ;)<BR/><BR/>Glad to hear you had a great date, by the way. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158166895989775902006-09-13T12:01:00.001-05:002006-09-13T12:01:00.001-05:00so is there going to be a follow up date?so is there going to be a follow up date?Carl Spacklerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12346189642978640571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158166866372646972006-09-13T12:01:00.000-05:002006-09-13T12:01:00.000-05:00Well if we have to demand it, if it's too much lik...Well if we have to demand it, if it's too much like pulling teeth, then it loses all the magic. But it should be expected or else they've lost a wonderful opportunity.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16103812856035857566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158161822134226022006-09-13T10:37:00.000-05:002006-09-13T10:37:00.000-05:00This is an interesting concept. I too have dated a...This is an interesting concept. I too have dated a lot of men who are just generally not respectful in that manner. I usually end up comparing them to the few standouts. What I think is that "most" men are capable of being great dates, but they decide whether they are going to grant you that attention and consideration early on. How do they decide that? I bet it's a mix of if they are attracted Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06111859186896686753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158157861109132042006-09-13T09:31:00.000-05:002006-09-13T09:31:00.000-05:00I seem to go for the complete opposite of your typ...I seem to go for the complete opposite of your type, except it blows up in my face.<BR/><BR/>They start out all aloof and assholish (the way I like it btw), and then they suddenly turn into needy/clingy guys...I hate that.Nicoelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11516887169014772881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158122081062462622006-09-12T23:34:00.000-05:002006-09-12T23:34:00.000-05:00appreciate it when you meet a guy smart enough to ...appreciate it when you meet a guy smart enough to do it.minijonbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13310827608075981019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158117698588191012006-09-12T22:21:00.000-05:002006-09-12T22:21:00.000-05:00I think that women in general who have a low self ...I think that women in general who have a low self image are so happy that someone thinks that they are worth going on a date that they tend to bend over backwards to be accomodating.<BR/>I have learned this the hard way. You bend over backwards too far and you end up being a doormat.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09995636108623685490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158115123464054212006-09-12T21:38:00.000-05:002006-09-12T21:38:00.000-05:00you should always expect to be treated with respec...you should always expect to be treated with respect and kindness. don't demand it, or you will be let down. <BR/><BR/>if a guy does not meet your "expectation", than move on until he does... then you will have no need to demand.mgchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07033639117579035292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158108375301395142006-09-12T19:46:00.000-05:002006-09-12T19:46:00.000-05:00Although I've dated some guys that left much to be...Although I've dated some guys that left much to be desired, they have all picked me up for dates, opened my door, paid for at least the first few dates, etc. While I don't "demand" it, I wouldn't go on mulitple dates with someone who hadn't shown me those basic courtesies and manners. You deserve the same and shouldn't settle for less. I think if you insist on at least these few things, you'llAllyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01816929643644946388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158100982158414472006-09-12T17:43:00.000-05:002006-09-12T17:43:00.000-05:00kk- good point. But I definitely need to stop put...kk- good point. But I definitely need to stop putting up with the mistreatment.<BR/><BR/>cs- yes, unfortunately I have dated a <B> lot </B> of losers. <BR/><BR/>oss- very true.Ashburnitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08178625862969850097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158100859419735562006-09-12T17:40:00.000-05:002006-09-12T17:40:00.000-05:00cody- awww...that's why you're one of my fav guys....cody- awww...that's why you're one of my fav guys.<BR/><BR/>jojo- exactly. I need to stop letting men treat me with anything less than what I deserve.<BR/><BR/>vk- no, you definitely have a point. Maybe I misspoke when I said "demand." WHat I really mean is that I shouldn't let men treat me with disrespect. I have never "demanded" things from a man, but I do expect to be treated with a lot Ashburnitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08178625862969850097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158094714229980322006-09-12T15:58:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:58:00.000-05:00I received LOADS of attention from the last guy I ...I received LOADS of attention from the last guy I dated. Yet in the end I found out he really wasn't that into me at all. What a complete mindf**k. However, with that being said, I think we women SHOULD expect nothing less than to be with a man who thinks you are worthy enough to devote lots of attention to. I firmly believe we are wasting our precious time otherwise.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05614160953600442436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158094323856042552006-09-12T15:52:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:52:00.000-05:00don't take this the wrong way...but it sounds as i...don't take this the wrong way...but it sounds as if you've dated some losers in the past.<BR/><BR/>i'll open the door if we are walking up to the car and am on the passenger side. otherwise i think it would be odd.<BR/><BR/>flowers, candles, vicky's secret...all that girly crap is a must when dating.Carl Spacklerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12346189642978640571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158094029969792442006-09-12T15:47:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:47:00.000-05:00I have to agree with VKent in the “expect but do n...I have to agree with VKent in the “expect but do not demand it” in a general way. No, not al guys are going to be like that—but some are…and you shouldn’t ever let someone treat you like crap but some guys DO need that extra push to tell them what you like and what you find attractive.<BR/><BR/>In terms of treating you well and opening doors etc. though, DEMAND that.KassyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05859514828888662789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158093890041785882006-09-12T15:44:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:44:00.000-05:00I'll go with the latter. Mamma Dade always told me...I'll go with the latter. Mamma Dade always told me that the secret to a happy life is low expectations.White Dadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04000657284869736377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158092570409483352006-09-12T15:22:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:22:00.000-05:00Abso-fuckin'-lutely! The one thing I've learned fr...Abso-fuckin'-lutely! The one thing I've learned from past relationships is that I SHOULD expect to be treated well and that guys SHOULD put some thought/ effort into the relationship.JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05417156648953411101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14595200.post-1158091206877853412006-09-12T15:00:00.000-05:002006-09-12T15:00:00.000-05:00Expect it and demand it. Any guy who doesn't give...Expect it and demand it. Any guy who doesn't give you the attention you deserve isn't worth your time.Nonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06957139319592365778noreply@blogger.com