Why I Love Jewish Men

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

I’ve always had very eclectic taste when it comes to men- I’ve never been one of those women who has specifications when it comes to who she will date: “I only date men who are over 6 feet tall, with dark hair and blue eyes.” To me this seems ridiculous. By setting certain limits on whom you will and will not date, you are discounting so many eligible men, many of which will probably treat you much better than the small specific group that you limit yourself to. I, on the other hand, am an “equal opportunity dater.” Whether the guy is black, white, Latino, Middle Eastern, tall, short, blonde, or brunette, I date the person, not the image. Granted, we are all attracted to certain features, and attraction is extremely important in a relationship (I would never say “looks don’t matter,” because they absolutely do), attraction will not make you laugh when you’ve had a rough day.

That being said, I have, however, always had a thing for Jewish men. My first encounter with Judaism was in the sixth grade. I lived in a very small town in Pennsylvania, and there was only one Jewish person in my class. While I spent many of my younger years all over the world (military brat), I don’t remember anyone celebrating anything other than Christmas. I was intrigued by the fact that his parents wouldn’t let him be a part of “Secret Santa” because they didn’t celebrate Christmas. My parents were slightly anti-religion (as am I), and never taught me about religions, or about my family’s religious roots.

But it wasn’t until college that I started learning more about Judaism. That’s when I started dating my first “Jew boy” (his words, not mine). And thus began my love of Jewish men. So, without further ado (and because I love lists)- the reasons why I love Jewish men:


  1. Great Oral Sex. It was with said Jewish boyfriend that I first had an orgasm from oral sex. In fact, only one other boyfriend before him had even gone down on me (and not very well). I think it’s because of all of the tongue olympics they have to endure while speaking Hebrew, but it’s been my experience that Jewish men are great with the oral. And to this day, I can still say that he was the absolute best when it came (all puns intended) to oral. No one (except my little battery-operated boyfriend) has even come close.
  2. They are Happy that You Aren’t a JAP. The IJC breaks down Jappy behavior far better than I ever could, so take a look at his site. From what I can gather, most Jewish men would much rather be with a Shiksa than with a JAP. Now, most of my good friends know how much I hate when people feed a stereotype, and JAPs are no exception. I think that most Jewish men try (at least during their youth) to date Jewish women, but there’s only so much nasal whining a man can take. And, being a Shiksa dating a Jewish man, no amount of whining that you do could ever compare to the whining that their female counterparts do.
  3. They Come with a Circumcision Guarantee. Any woman who has been in the dating game for some amount of time has encountered one or two “uncut” men. Everyone has their preferences, and some women love the turtleneck, but I am not one of them. The only way to be absolutely sure (before sex, that is) that the man I am dating is, in fact, circumcised, is to date a Jewish man. More and more parents are deciding that circumcision is unnecessary and cruel, so more and more men are wearing turtlenecks. Especially, given that my dating age range could mean that the man I’m dating may have raised by hippies. But, given that circumcision is a rite of passage- a ceremony, in fact- Jewish men will always be “cut.”
  4. Manners. Most Jewish men were raised by Jewish women. And, if nothing else, they mind their manners. I am a little old-fashioned when it comes to manners, and I don’t think there is ever a good reason to forget them. Luckily, neither do Jewish mothers.
  5. Humor. I have yet to meet a Jewish guy that wasn’t at least a little bit funny. Nothing beats the self-deprecating humor that Jewish guys all seem possess.
  6. Hava Nagila is one hell of a catchy tune.

So there it is. Just a few of the reasons that I love the Jewish guys. And for anyone who hasn’t seen it, please watch The Hebrew Hammer. Adam Goldberg is the "baddest Heb this side of Tel Aviv."

61 comments:

Irina 4/26/2006 01:55:00 PM  

oh man i ONLY date jewish men, but that's because i'm jewish and have to marry one (isn't that sad.)
Anyway in regards to #1- i've had some good and some bad, but the good was usually to compensate a small you know what.

Tara 4/26/2006 02:11:00 PM  

I liked Adam Goldberg in "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days". Very funny.

Good post, Ashburn! Very educational! :)

sammygeerock 4/26/2006 02:22:00 PM  

Lechiam!Great post! Now if you could make sure all the other women out there read it that would be great.
-From a grateful Red Sea Pedestrian

AlienCG 4/26/2006 02:34:00 PM  

"Friday night we’ll be drinkin’ manashevitz, Goin’ out to terrorize goyem.
Stompin’ shagitz, screwin’ shicksas
As long as we’re home by saturday mornin’"--NOFX, The Brews

Sorry, I had to add that in there.

NotCarrie 4/26/2006 02:34:00 PM  

Hah! I need to get that Klezmer book out to play and attract the Jewish men!

Ashburnite 4/26/2006 03:12:00 PM  

irina- see..I've never run into that.

Tara- Thanks. I absolutely love Adam Golberg too.

Sammy- I am trying my best, bubbeleh.

alien- haha...love it!

notcarrie- you and me both!

minijonb 4/26/2006 03:12:00 PM  

I'm a "Jew boy" who's had some problems with this over the years. After years of intentionally dating Shiksas, I was ready to settle down and meet the Jewish girl of my mother's dreams. Too bad I live in a midwestern city with a small Jewish population. I've grown up with kids who moved to NYC, Chicago or the Twin Cities just to date in a larger Jewish talent pool. I wasn't going to give in like that. Then, about 5 years ago, I met my Shiksa goddess. We even had a mutual Jewish friend who had always called her a "JAP in training" ... maybe that wasn't a good sign =:-/

So, too make a long story short, I'll soon be looking for a new Shiska goddess... or maybe I need to stay in the Tribe this time? My avatar is so confused =;-)

Awesome post! I dig Goldberg as the Hammer.

Bad at Life 4/26/2006 04:55:00 PM  

I think having a thing for jewish folks is widely under-reported. I've only been involved with a couple of jewish girls, but was way into both of them...in part, I think, because #1 seems to hold true for both genders.

Ashburnite 4/26/2006 05:30:00 PM  

minijonb- I think you just need to find a shiksa who isn't a JAP in training. There are those of us shiksas who are more "waspy," therefore not as high-maintenance.

B@L- I hadn't heard that about Jewish girls. Maybe they should start some semi-JDate site...non-Jews seeking Jews. I think it's be a great idea.

minijonb 4/26/2006 06:04:00 PM  

Ashburnite: to quote Billy Crystal in When Harry Met Sally ... "You think you're low maintenance. But you're really high maintenance." =;p)

Statistically speaking, are shiksas really lower maintenance women than JAPs??? Should I go on 100 J-dates and 100 dates from other online dating sites and do a survey to find out?

Ashburnite 4/26/2006 06:45:00 PM  

jon- compared to the JAPy women that I know, I think I am much lower-maintenance.

But I think you should try that out...and make sure you blog about it..I would love to see how that goes.

nicole 4/26/2006 11:09:00 PM  

That was AWESOME, Ash! And hilarious that you included a turtleneck photo next to the circumcision entry.

You shiksa, you!

mgc 4/27/2006 01:22:00 AM  

i am not jewish, but i am too hot for a turtleneck :-)
and i open the door for my wife every time, for 25 years! some gentiles have manners too.

Ashburnite 4/27/2006 07:25:00 AM  

nicole- thanks....had to include the turtleneck!

mgc- well, then your wife is a lucky woman!

Mike V. 4/27/2006 09:59:00 AM  

LOL!

This post gave me a good laugh on a Thurs.

Stumbled through from Blogmad.

No, not Jewish.

Very funny post.

Peace.

Ashburnite 4/27/2006 10:11:00 AM  

Mike V- thanks for actually reading it...most people don't actually read the blogs on BlogMad. I'm glad I could make someone laugh.

Mike V. 4/27/2006 11:44:00 AM  

Not only that, I bookmarked your site :)

Ashburnite 4/27/2006 11:51:00 AM  

mike- thank-you. Always happy to hve new blog friends.

Bad at Life 4/27/2006 03:38:00 PM  

You said: "Maybe they should start some semi-JDate site...non-Jews seeking Jews."

I would definitely use such a service. I've actually heard of non-jewish guys who use jdate--it is not clear that they ever get another date after they're discovered as frauds though.

Ashburnite 4/27/2006 08:08:00 PM  

B@L- maybe we should start a site...

mike s.,  4/28/2006 02:17:00 PM  

they have to be good, or at least give it often, at oral sex to make up for their small packages. only asians are known for being less endowed. big noses and small in the pants. attractive?

White Dade 4/28/2006 04:39:00 PM  

I hope the IJC sees this. I left him a voicemail today to that effect. Always happy to plug a friend...

This post is a perfect ilustration for why jewish men intermarry. you don't see entire wites devoted to how shitty they are, do you? you never see entire posts from non-Jewish girls talking about how much they syuck. Wuite the contrary. the only girls who complain about jewish guys are Jewish girls. So, as a mensa applicant like you can deduce, we tend to gravitate towards women who appreciate us aka Blonde girls from small towns where there aren't any jewish people. I could go on about this for days, but you make an excellent point here and it forgives your thing for guys with popped collars....

that being said, the whole oral sex thing? Not true.

Ashburnite 4/28/2006 07:29:00 PM  

mike s.- how do you know about their size? That's quite a generalization. And actually, the few Jewish men that I have had the pleasure of...ummm...knowing were pretty well-endowed.

Dade- always happy to plug good bloggers. Is that why I attract Jewish men? I'm definitely not complaining. And the oral sex thing- really? I guess I must have just been fortunate.

Ricardo 4/30/2006 05:19:00 PM  

Very funny! And you made me even more proud to be Jewish although I converted. Maybe this was why ;)

Amishav 4/30/2006 08:13:00 PM  

Wow, what a funny post! I found you through Ricardo. Any chance of showing up in Denver one day? LOL. Glad to know that there are some women out there who like Jewish guys even if we all don't look like Superman

Anonymous,  5/04/2006 12:07:00 AM  

"I am a little old-fashioned when it comes to manners, and I don’t think there is ever a good reason to forget them"

But what about these Jewish guys who write sites complaining about how all Jewish women are not up to their high standards? That ain't polite.

Nicotine Jones 5/04/2006 03:42:00 PM  

Great post. I'm Jewish but dated mostly non-Jews. Married a Catholic. Go figure...

Jack's Shack 5/08/2006 11:10:00 PM  

Mike S,

Dude, the only guys who make silly comments like that are those that were short changed.

Somehow I get the feeling that you work for me.

So many stereotypes and so little truth.

Anonymous,  10/02/2006 07:42:00 PM  

That's a great T-shirt the guy is wearing on your blog. I am a first-time Shiksa and I'm LOVING it! In fact I'll be getting Shiksa 1 license plates very soon! :o) Thanks for teh great blog!

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Anonymous,  1/23/2007 01:32:00 AM  

Ashburn, kudos to you. You really are a shiksa. There is another reason to be attracted to Jewish men, however. They are wicked smart! I'm attracted to intelligence. I think you covered the best reason though. Jewish men are the very best lovers. They are tender and gentle and want to please their women first and foremost. I too, am a shiksa. The best sex I have ever had is with my "Jew boy"! I have to say; your list is right on.

Anonymous,  1/23/2007 01:39:00 AM  

The whole oral sex thing...absolutely true! Jewish men are tender and gentle and are heaven in bed....and not just orally. Another reason for having a thing for Jewish men....they are wicked smart. Oh, by the way. I'm a blonde shiksa from a small town!

Anonymous,  3/11/2008 12:39:00 PM  

I too only date Jewish men and not one has let me down. Gentle, well mannered, polite and tigers in the bedroom. What is not to love?

Miss Informed 1/04/2009 10:35:00 AM  

I love this post! And yes, I'm commenting two yrs later but most of it rings true. I have a magnetic attraction to Jewish men but don't refer to myself as a shiksa because of its negative connotation. I have to say though, I've come across at least one Jewish man with an oral phobia and one with a small pee pee who firmly believed in humping...just my luck! There are definitely a few exceptions.

Miss Informed 1/04/2009 10:41:00 AM  

Also

Notcarrie and Ashburnite...about that book...read Boy Vey!: The Shiksa's Guide to Dating Jewish Men.

Anonymous,  4/25/2010 11:06:00 AM  

Speaking of Blonde Shiksa's from a small town, my Mother was one who converted. Learned to make pretty good Matzo Ball soup. She also never let herself get zaftig. She's now 76 and still doesn't have any weight problem. Although my last Girlfriend was Jewish and doesn't have that problem either.

Anonymous,  7/05/2010 06:05:00 AM  

This site is about American Jews me thinks.

Good luck finding an israeli guy with immaculate manners! :)

I think it's sad that still today peoples' parents pressure them to marry someone of the same race. When caucasians do it, there's an absolute outrage! So why is it ok for jews or arabs?

Back to the topic tho.. Jews do make good lovers, at least the two that I dated. Tbh, I think it's all those who originated in hot mediterranean cultures. There's something in that water :).

B and T Crowd 8/03/2010 07:27:00 AM  

Phenomenal entry! Perhaps it should be made into a full page ad in the Post.

Ashburnite 8/03/2010 07:32:00 AM  

Thanks B&T. Your mouth to the Post's ears......

Anonymous,  8/15/2010 01:09:00 AM  

Two words: Jeff Goldblum.

He's the reason I love Jews.

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DecoDreia and her Dastardly Droid 12/15/2010 10:05:00 PM  

I am a Jewish woman. I don't have any anger or anything toward non-Jewish women who prefer Jewish men. The resentment is strictly toward the men!

I used to only be interested in non-Jewish men, because two sets of Jewish neurosis under one roof - JUST TOO MUCH! I am sure that many Jewish men like non-Jewish women for the same reason.

But just as my mother divorced my non-Jewish father and married a Jewish man, I eventually realized that I really only "fit" with Jewish men.

Hopefully, one will one day reach the same conclusion I did... but it's not easy. Most either want a package I do not fit (I'm secular, first of all, and I am not the Jewish ideal... right amount of observance, right school, right family, etc... and grew up rather unprivileged) or they want someone who is not Jewish at all.

But at the end of the day, I'd rather be alone than not be with another Jew. I want to be able to sit at a dinner table with someone and realize that we have the same nightmares and the same hopes and fears and I would like to not have to explain a single thing.

Rebecca 8/23/2011 05:23:00 PM  

oh wow I have to say I agree with you very much. Not only is your list correct even for me but also I just find the look of a majority of Jewish men have (obviously not all): dark hair, big nose, often tall and lanky..idk I just LIKE the whole unconventional handsomeness that most Jewish men have (i.e. Adrian Brody). (I dated my 1st Jewish man when I was barely 18..he was a solider..and boy did he look good with his dark hair and sun darkened (to very very dark brown) skin look good in and out of his BDUs. :D I also first met a Jewish person (that I knew for sure was one) in grade school, 5th grade, the teacher sat us two 'new kids' together and he was my closest friend in 5th grade (6th grade he was in a different middle school than me).

Rebecca 8/23/2011 05:38:00 PM  

@minijonb-- ok what city are you? lol playing really. that's too bad but some of us Shiskas who often dated or have dated Jewish guys are that high maintenance 'Fran' voiced woman...thank g-d or I would have gone deaf by now *shudders* :-)

@Ashburnite --love your idea about the website for non-Jews seeking Jews for relationships (or vise versa) that would be awesome.

@mgc--that's a bit creepy

@mike s -- you are very confused I have found that's usually the OPPOSITE

@ann who wrote "They are wicked smart! I'm attracted to intelligence. I think you covered the best reason though. Jewish men are the very best lovers. They are tender and gentle and want to please their women first and foremost" I so agree with you intelligence is a HUGE turn on for me. I have also found your statement about pleasing their lovers to be very true of the Jewish guys I've dated (and rarely the case for the non-Jewish men I've dated).

((oh how could I forget Jeff Goldblum!! He is just too cute, funny, smart..all the good stuff))

Anonymous,  11/15/2011 02:34:00 PM  

I am arabic and i recently dated this jewish guy. but i dunno what the F i was thinking in my right mind that he might ask me to be his gf or marry me... i just had to share it but they are good people. he used to make a joke, that if him and i end up together the there will be another war betweens jews and arabs

Anonymous,  12/17/2011 06:49:00 AM  

Loving this blogka! I am an East Coast shiksa who was attracted to the ONLY Jewish boy in my elementary school long before I knew he was Jewish or what Judaism was. I've dated at least 10 Jewish men. have been friends with many more, been therapized by a couple and married an Israeli (which meant a trip to the Holy Land). Favorite Star Trek character? Spock, of course. What can I say? If I could start a philanthropy for Jewish men, I would. Now that I think of it, I have been philanthropic but I have not yet incorporated. :::shrugs and smiles knowingly, palms raised skyward:::

Anonymous,  4/03/2012 12:16:00 AM  

Lol, this is pretty interesting...at least from a Jewish man's perspective....

The feedback ive gotten:

1) Smart and Funny....some women like that; others SAY they like that but really prefer some douchebag faux alpha male aloof type...if you like your men smart and funny....well Jews fit the bill.

2) Semitic "type"...well if you like a tanner, curly or shaggy topped, slightly hairy/beardy type with nice kind eyes...youll probably be attracted to Jewish men. If you prefer viking dudes(which is fine..) or nubian princes with 28 inch waists...you probably wont. Its all preference.

3) Great providers/dads...when I see a middle aged or late 30s Jewish man something screams DAD to me..ya, not shocking bc my early memories of a father are of a Jewish ~36 yr old. Overall its very true though...not many abuse wives or children, most are very patient and loving with their children and obviously on average they are excellent providers.

4) The nasty stuff...

1)On oral, well guilty as charged...im a very oral man in bed and often initiate sex by going down...and not for 1 or 2 mins. I like using my mouth a lot and teasing with lips/parts of my face.

Im pretty confident im really good at oral sex...ill leave it at that.

2) Ive never heard this supposed stereotype about size and Jews(either way really). Methinks some scorn gentile man might have added that comment after finding his lost love in bed with a Heeb or something.

I went to camps, played sports and generally have seen a lot of schlong in my day; there just isnt any difference between the size of caucasians in general and Jews.....and why would there be?

Newflash there is a ton of admixture in Askenazic Jewry anyway...so if Jews in the west had X kind of genitals, then Germans and Slavs would too..

"D" a WASP 5/11/2012 01:18:00 AM  

One of my fondest memories is of a Jewish man and I making a day and night of it. And as much as I liked his face between my thighs I also liked it when his Star of David was dancing along with the tune of our music. Took me out for dinner....I had lobster he had lamb and yes there are rules to be followed.But this Shiska knows that me and my Jewish lover could have made a great team in many respects. I am not a believer of marrying because you are of the same faith though I do believe that honoring your partners faith should be absolute.In my estimation Jewish men are different but I don't speak of it in sexual terms. I speak of it in the way they are brought up and boy lets face it Jewish women can be down right mean and nasty not to mention rude....of those I have met more than I care to remember. And no girl is good enough for her baby boy. Now I realize that this not ALWAYS the case with Jewish ladies but from my experience give me a Jewish man to talk to, live with, work for than a Jewish woman.

Libby1972 7/05/2012 07:48:00 PM  

I am currently and have been dating a Jewish man (non practicing) for the past year and change. He's by far the best relationship I've ever had. Has little to nothing to do with his judaism but moreso with the person he is. We have both been through crap and a lot of it with relationship. I have always been fascinated with the Jewish faith since long before I became involved with a Jewish man. I am considering integrating my Faith with his and we have been observing both of our holidays. We love it. We are not your average couple and our interfaith has no bearing on why. :-) in terms of sex its superior to all others and he feels likewise.

Anonymous,  7/10/2012 10:25:00 PM  

I adore Jewish men -- but let me tell you, I love those turtlenecks!

Anonymous,  9/16/2012 02:59:00 AM  

Jewish men are big wimpy babies who run when there is any turbulance!!! But everything else about them is heaven!!! Sure wish I could have one for keeps!!!! Ready to give up.

Anonymous,  10/02/2012 03:28:00 AM  

I've been involved with several Jewish men, and only one was the ultimate mama's boy, whiny, neurotic and horrible in bed. The others, amazing. Tender, loving, ALL extremely talented orally, and I have quickly learned that Jewish men like a chubby blonde Protestant shiksa like me. A lot. I'm pretty confident in saying that I think they were hands down, the best lovers I've had. And so sweet. Why do Jewish men like chubby girls, that's what I'm wondering.. I've also noticed size isn't usually an issue either. Its usually gentiles that leave me wondering how big its going to be... Now if I could only find a nice Jewish boy to marry me...

My aunt has been married three times, and the third time was the charm for her, and her amazing Jewish husband.

Anonymous,  10/02/2012 06:30:00 PM  

Libby1972 - It's like you know me. Same exact situation with my boyfriend. Seriously, I smiled as I read your comment. Since he and I are young, we don't know where we're headed, for instance whether we will marry each other or not, and notably because I'm a practicing Protestant and intend to stay that way. However, I have such a love for Judaism, all the way back to my early childhood, and I enjoy exploring the Jewish roots of my faith. Really, everyone, you would be surprised to see just how much a Christian can share in celebration with a Jewish person! And even though all of the Jewish guys I've known are pretty funny and sweet in their own ways, always take people for themselves and not for stereotypes. Let their Jewishness be the icing on the cake and you will have a sweet future ahead of you both.

Shalom. :)

P.S. Everyone needs to hear and sing the Alef Bet song at least once in their lifetime. Here's a version illustrated with pictures of children at the Tribeca Hebrew school and it's delightfully adorable. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MD2AGCXqpr4

Jew lover 10/27/2012 01:01:00 AM  

I love this article and will let everyone know on my Fb. I love Jewish men. There loving men who are tender , sweet,and they take care of there families. I'm a non Jew. I have been around and only dated one non Jew and will never date a non Jew again. I love that they have that erotic sweetness about them. I'm all for Jews . I don't care if Im a shiska!!!

Anonymous,  2/16/2013 02:32:00 PM  

If you know or are the Jewish guy i'm describing please leave a comment here I will come back to check this website.

You live in Montreal, I was there on a visit, we started a chat about my right handbandage due to krav maga at 15-2-2013. You're 30 years old and practice MMA but currently injured, told me you started at the age of 5 with martial arts and continued ever since. I told you I started at age 8 :) and we did something I never done before; my right arm up and you too did it to support it. I made it a match and we were the most funny looking people :-) I hope I get to meet you again or see you because those minutes before I had to literally ran off due to family circumstances and did not catch your name or had time...

I hope you find me again or I can find you because I like you. You made me smile and have the same love for sports as I have. If we don't meet again now that I think you are the greatest Jewish guy I ever met :-) (You've been in the israeli army for five years and have a tattoo in hebrew on your right upperarm innerside) I know a lot of more details to our quick chat but I hope to see you again maybe on skype or on my next visit.. I'm already out of Montreal.. You ran 161 km once in 21 hours and I think besides our match of holding our arms above our heads we could have some other sportive matches aswell in near future :-) Don't know how to describe it but I felt that thing of chemistry and I just... faith hopefully brings us back together but I aswell mailed a training facility of mma in montreal already, please forgive me for embarassing you if it is the case but I atleast want to get back in contact with you! Just sports related ofcourse ;-) good excuse eh?!

ps. I actually can't believe I'm doing this and what I already did to get in touch with you.. don't make me mail your work company you mentoined.. I know all of our conversation and I can't believed what happened.. I feel so alive and I hope to laugh with you again, you're the only guy I won't mind losing to. Maybe it is my naievity as a 20 year old but you're awesome while I totally get freaked out by strangers most of the time.

Anonymous,  2/16/2013 04:43:00 PM  

He propbably thinks this shiksa is insane but

http://armsupkrav.tumblr.com/

I need to find my jewish guy back!

Anasuya,  2/21/2013 12:22:00 PM  

OMG, this so so true! I'm an Indian girl and I looove Jewish guys. (And they seem to love Indian girls right back!). They're so intelligent and sweet and just look liked they need to be hugged and cuddled all the time. I loooove my Jewish boyfriend. :3

I think girls in general are more likely to complain about boys from their community because they see a different side of them. For example, many Indian boys are sweet, intelligent feminists too, but they have so many hang-ups and neuroses of their own. As do us Indian girls. It's refreshing to date someone who isn't from your background and doesn't have the same issues!

I also just feel that Jewish culture has so much in common with Indian culture - my current boyfriend is Jewish and the conversations his family has at the dinner table are basically identical to the dinner conversations I have at home!

Anonymous,  4/04/2013 12:33:00 AM  

Finally another woman with a thing for Jewish men! I'm a French-Irish Canadian who was Catholic raised although I'm not practicing. I've dated other Christians and I've dated Muslims, but nothing beats a Jew. I feel like I often wind up finding a guy really attractive only to find out he's Jewish.

While a generalisation, they tend show much more respect for women and they treat them like actual people. I don't want a guy who tries acting tough and "Alpha", I want someone I can laugh with and talk to. I want smart and funny, not some collar-popping douche. While Irish guys can be nice, they drink too much and the ones I know aren't much for "Book learning". They take too much pride in not knowing things and doing hard practical labour. The attitude is if they aren't working hard, they aren't working (the same goes for parties).

I tend to get along well with Jewish women too. I think it's because there are a lot of parallels and commonalities between the Irish Catholic and Jewish communities. As Brendan Behan once said, "Others have a nationality. The Irish and the Jews have a psychosis." We are all wanderers and there is a reason so many of us immigrated to North America.

Anonymous,  7/14/2013 01:37:00 AM  

I've never had a man please me like the older Jewish lover I worked with in the government in DC in 1980. It was absolutely incredible the way he moved his tongue. No man has ever come close to his expertise. He was also hung like a horse.

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